South Africa’s showbiz darling, passionate choreographer, Somizi Mhlongo is gearing up for a pool party to be hosted in New7Wonders City – Durban, in uShaka Marine World. On Saturday, 14 May, the colorful Mzansi Magic’s reality TV star titled Living The Dream With Somizi Mhlongo will be at uShaka Marine World’s Wet ‘n Wild. The pool party is set to begin at… Read More Somizi Mhlongo To Host A Pool Party In Ushaka Marine World
“It’s not about the flamboyant lifestyle, the Louis Vuitton and stuff – those are just accessories. There’s an entrepreneur behind Somizi; there’s a family man behind Somizi; there’s a father; there’s a breadwinner; there’s a hard worker… So, it is mainly about that”. Says, Somizi in an interview with Slikour On Life TV. After few hints, internationally acclaimed for top-notch… Read More Somizi Mhlongo’s Reality TV Show Inspires Africa’s LGBTIQ Community
The very first unifying and symbolic Ubuntu celebration presented by Obed Mlaba Foundation made possible by the National Lotteries Commission of South Africa took Durban to stardom. On it’s much-anticipated introductory, Ethekwini Pride of Africa Festival took place under Africa’s warmest city, Moses Mabhida Stadium – People’s Park. Packed with a diverse heritages, values, beliefs, all unifying and… Read More Africa Celebrates Ubuntu – Ethekwini Pride 0f Africa Festival’s 1st Edition
Idols SA, South Africa’s biggest television reality singing talent competition show returns for it’s eleventh season with a Queer friendly twist. Somizi Mhlongo also know as “SomGaGa” is joining this seasons judging panel in search of next singing sensation. Catch Somizi, an absolute goddess for not only the LGBTI community rather anyone daring following his incredible… Read More Catch Somizi Mhlongo on Idols SA Season 11 and Top 16 Contestants Announced
Photo: www. creevesabudd.deviantart.com Truth be told, homosexuality related issues are not considered all together, to a certain extent. Meanwhile, tons of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transsexual and intersex individuals become victims of bullying almost on daily basis. Dawn the memory lane – back in primary school, throughout my schooling life actually. Apparently, everything about me was… Read More 3 Creepy Homosexuality Stereotypes and Myths Busted
It was a cloudy Monday. Drained and tired, accompanied by my best friend, who also happens to be my brother, I was to finally see a doctor about my problematic eyes. I had had noticed a slight change in my eyes on the mirror reflection a while back, precisely three months ago. I had to… Read More I met a stranger – Grandmotherly love
I kept tossing and turning al night on my bed. The night got too long, aIl I wanted was to close my eyes and stop thinking. Thinking the impossible. Or perhaps maybe never wake up again! I hated my life like I hated God. “Jack” is the name that kept ringing in my ears. I… Read More #OurStories: Waking Up From A Fairytale To A Nightmare
Today I’m introducing a new series called “Our Stories”. On this series I will be sharing with you short stories about gay life written by me. I’m open to Guest Writers, so if you’ve got a story to tell, don’t hesitate contacting me. So here it goes: Come to think of it… I actually miss… Read More #OurStories: Wait…Does This Mean I’m Gay? – Giving My Secret Away
Miss Valentines 2015 Finalists. Yet again, beauty queens are gearing up to battle for the Miss Valentine 2015 title. Since 1999, different organizers cook up the event with an exact same core goal in mind – celebrating life meaningfully whilst empowering the community. “It’s all about explosive personalities, alter egos and embracing being feminine.” -Says… Read More Who Will Be Your Valentine? – Miss Valentines 2015 Finalists
While you may find sexual identity to be a straight forward sphere, it’s the total opposite for some individuals. Infect, a rather traumatic experience, particularly for LGBTI individuals. Unlike ordinary everyday people, Lee Siba got caught up in the sexual identity dilemma. Something that’s our parents and media hardly openly discuss. Is it somewhat taboo?… Read More Life As A Transwomen – Meet Lee Siba Mothibe
Say goodbye to 2014! We’re few days away to 2015, christmas vibes are booming all over. Celebrate new years eve in style with Johannesburg Pride. Nobody rocks a party like fags do! We know how to have a blast. You’re in for a treat to kiss 2014’s moments goodbye and say hello to 2015. What… Read More The Ultimate New Years Party – Johannesburg Pride New Years Eve Event
While it’s probably not every day one get’s invited to glitzy hot events. I was extremely chuffed when my babe Yaya Mavundla told me the most exciting news I’ve ever received. Life changing news! Actually I was meant to grace the presence of Mzansi Pride for one day but to my surprise she extended it… Read More Raging Fire – Mzansi Pride 2014
Kelly Khumalo. Thumps up to Thami Kotlolo – Founder of the bold and proud South Africa’s biggest Gay Awards ceremony, staged in South Africa – Feather Awards. Do you still remember who the nomenies were for 2014? Here there are – Click Here. And the winners for the 6th annual Chevrolet Feather Awards 2014 are:… Read More The Winners are – Chevrolet Feather Awards 2014
Although I’m not a fan of summer. I absolutely appreciate it, simply because it allows me to wear my shorts everyday without thinking twice. I felt all sorts of fresh wearing this outfit. The mixed printed shirt I wrapped around my waist completed the look beautifully. I decided to go with a plain t-shirt to… Read More Ootd – Summer Is Here
JHBPP Details – Official Poster. Johannesburg People’s Pride is a movement in solidarity with politically oriented and socially conscious Pride event that educate and conscientise communities about the struggles that shape our experiences of being queer (Lesbian,Gay, Bisexual, Transgender & Intersex community) in South Africa. The first Johannesburg Peoples Pride March was held on 6… Read More Johannesburg People’s Pride 2014 | All People’s Pride
Finally it’s friday and I’m in a party mood how about you? Having a glass of wine or champaign would do me good right now. Let’s celebrate all that occurred this week – good and bad. It all matters! We’re towards the end of 2014…christmas vibes are booming everywhere. Moving right along, my two favorite… Read More Let’s Party With Kim Kardashian and Nicki Minaj – It’s Friday
A Diva is a female version of a hustla, said Beyonce in her smashing hit Diva. Remember the song? Well…This coming Saturday-first of November, beauty queens will be battling for the title Miss Gay Alexander 2014 at Sankopano Community Centre in Johannesburg – Alexander. Yet again the LGBTI community get to express themselves within a… Read More Diva’s To Battle For The Title | Miss Gay Alexander 2014
The internationally recognised knitwear brand, MaXhosa By Laduma was started in 2010 by Laduma Ngoxolo. A young South African designer who studied textile design and technology in Nelson Mandela Metropolitan University. It’s his late mother who taught him hand machine knitting at only 8 years of age. Doing knitwear was a hobby since high school… Read More I’m Genuinely Hooked – MaXhosa By Laduma
Screen Grabbed – Twitter Feeds My twitter is buzzing this week! in less than five minutes after posting the tweets you’ll see below, 10 people instantly followed me and I followed back. I’m genuinely surprised by the reaction received from the facts-thoughts I shared on twitterville. Seemingly the message I’m spreading across is being taken… Read More Tweets Of The Week – Twitterville Buzz
Mr & Miss Gay Daveyton Finalists Funny enough, way back in my early teenage days I unintentionally entered a beauty pageant-Mr Valentine. I vividly remember this. Little did I know that I’d make it to the top five. Ahem…perks of being free spirited! If you ask me, the judges got intimidate by my customized outfits,… Read More Mr & Miss Gay Daveyton 2014
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I’m huge fan of Uhuru. A south african music group that’s making waves in the Entertainment Industry. These folks make good jams, music that make you move… twerk….dance like nobody is watching. Their single ‘Y tjukutja’ meaning shake yourself in ‘Pretorian Slang’ topped the local charts recently . The group includes Maphorisa (Themba Sekowe), Mapiano… Read More #ChevyFeathers2014 And The Nomeniees Are…
God is great- we’re still breathing – Amen to that. Happy freaky friday to you 😀 . I’ve been laughing so much today it’s totally refreshing. Imagine if your fridge did what you do to it everyday. Every half hour it goes to your room, Opens the door, And stares at you for 5minutes then… Read More Freaky Friday
I salute this wonderful man- Cino Shearer, founder of Mzansi Pride. He’s doing a remarkable job not only for the LGBTI Community but for the entire world. If you’re a regular visitor here you probably know what’s Mzansi Pride is. For you- first time dropping by here, you’re simply awesome, hope to see more of… Read More Save the Date – Mzansi Pride Is Taking Over.
These are the Three Stylish Ways you can wear your bag. Own It! Be You! Set Your Own Trends. Oh goodness me- how I’ve been unsure about publishing this post. Only because I’ve never shared this side of me to anyone else but my best, best friend- Mthizeey. Whom also happens to be my brother,… Read More 3 Stylish Ways To Wear A Bag | Look Book
Details of Tomorrow will be the very first Annual Miss Gay Kathorus 2014-Beauty contest, to be hosted in Johannesburg, Vosloorus at Child Wenare Hall. This is a start of a fruitful future, for mostly beauty queens. Meet Leeroy Blackpearl YakwaKubeka, Miss Gay Vaal 2013 finalist and Miss Gay Soweto 2013 finalist. A young intelligent awesomely… Read More Miss Gay Kathorus 2014| Leeroy Blackpearl YakwaKubeka
It’s been a year since we’ve met. I’m very thankful and grateful for the time you take to visit, like, comment, share, and reblog my thoughts, YOU’RE AWESOME 😀 . I’ve learned so much since my first post here. Click Here if you missed it. It’s brings joy to me telling the story of us.… Read More Look Who’s Turning One
I’m a huge fan of anything Denim, be it- shirts or pants. Even shoes!! With accessories and a bit of personal touch, denim surely could be considered “Trend Of All Time“. Weather you’re going for a relaxed casual or formal look. There’s is no formula as to how or when one can wear denim. Denim… Read More Look Stylish With Denim
Happy Friday to you!! have a productive and fun weekend. Thanks for popping by, So whats do you think of that post?
When I think street wear, the first thing that’s comes into my mind is freedom of expression through fashion. There’s nothing I like more than wearing comfortable clothing. Every single letter in this fashion concept has It’s meaning. Well, according to me :-D. STREET WEAR: S: style T: timeless R: rainbow E: effortless E: electrifying… Read More Freedom OF Expression | Street Wear
I’m happy being gay and by the looks of it, these guys are too!! (See photos below). Love is love no matter what gender!! With that said, having a healthy relationship is very critical for all of us, weather it’s between family, colleagues, friends or even your pats! Today I’m strictly concentrating on same sex… Read More 4 Tips To Have A Healthy Relationship | Same Sex relationships
rocking the weave. Look what I found on twitter…! I honestly think this dude looks absolutely stunning in his hair styles. Thanks for popping by, So whats do you think of that post?. Do connect with me via Twitter: @Njabulombutho
“Our products let you… be you! We’re deeply passionate about providing you with an opportunity to be yourself through customization. And we’re committed to offering the highest quality custom products in the world, in an ever-expanding array of categories”– zazzle.com Last friday I discovered zazzle.com and instantly fell in love with this online store simply… Read More zazzle.com Is Awesome! | Online Shopping
I admit! I’ve been following Miss J Alexander’s career through social media over the years, being the internet freak that I am. And so, some of the photos you’ll see below are sourced from his social media accounts. Here is some exciting news! Not so long ago, Miss J shared America’s Next Top Model’s Facebook… Read More Say Hi To Miss J Alexander | #LGBTI
I’ve got mad love for Markham Relay Brand. I don’t leave at a shopping mall without having popped in store to feed my fashion sense, with their awesome Accessories, Footwear, Casual Bottoms, Fragrances, and Tops. About Markham: Markham Relay is the largest men’s fashion retail chain in southern Africa, located in most major shopping centres… Read More Markham Relay | My Fashion Spot
Photo credit-www.pdxpipeline.com Remember Cino Shearer?, a South African philanthropist, publicist guru and one of the 130 most influential people on the African Continent. He has introduced yet another amazing initiative ” Mzansi Pride“, of which is a Pride Festival. Aimed to unite the LGBTI organizations in Africa in making the Mzanzi Pride’s vision a reality,… Read More Pride Festival | Mzansi Pride #LGBTI
Couple months ago I wrote an article about how being who you are can benefit you. Click Here if you missed it. Today I’m introducing to you an amazing individual who is a good example of how life turns out if one truly believe in themselves. Here’s another thing about me, i absolutely refuse to… Read More Getting To Know Thiart Li – #LGBTI
Who doesn’t know my favorite song by Lady Gaga, Born This Way? Yes I’m a monster :-D. If you don’t know this song simply click on the following link “http://m.itemvn.com/listsong/?q=Lady+Gaga_Born+This+Way&submit=search" to listen to it now Online or Download. Let’s carefully go through the lyrics: (sing it out loud with me :-D: Chorus: I’m beautiful in… Read More 2014 Durban Pride | My Pride, My Right!
Today I have something different, motivating you to do something good. I’m not sure if most of you are aware of my entrepreneurial aspirations. I’m hosting another blog that I’m passionate about so much South African Online Creatives. So, when i came across this inspirational article about this amazing young businessman, I thought of sharing… Read More Cino Shearer Scoops The 2014 Most Influential People In Africa Nominee | Some Inspiration
Greetings lovies! on a fashion note 😀 Today I’m introducing the “Fashion Spot” segment. In the Fashion Spot segment posts, I will initially share all fashion things in my liking with you and feature Fashion Brands that I love only for giving you an idea of my fashion sense. Damn! I love clothing so much… Read More MR Price Fashion | My Fashion Spot
Born and bred in KwaZulu-Natal (Kranskop). At only 16 years of age, Yaya Mavundla had already accepted her sexuality. Not many were astonished by the “image” change she made earlier this year in January, Yaya decided to cross dress full time (dressing as female). Thus, was rather a more natural fit to her personality considering… Read More A Fierce Transwomen | Interview With Yaya Mavundla
Photo Credit: http://www.enews24.in Communication channels: Radio, print media, television and the interweb have been discussing, debating & publishing about the official 2014national and provincial elections which are three days away. What’s this mean to me as a Gay South African citizen? Eish! Well…. it’s been eight years same sex marriage has been legalized here in… Read More 2014 Elections underway!
Photo credit: http://www.bujybikwa.com Dawn the memory lane was the welcoming of yet another fierce, bold, and inspiring proud member of the LGBT community in the entertainment industry, Bujy Bikwa. He took the television scene by storm, being one of the contestant on the television Reality Competition Dance Your Butt Off on SABC1. With his rather… Read More An Exclusive Interview With “Bujy” Bikwa
Photo credit: http://www.theguardian.com Feeling like “this is it, no matter how much negatives i will get but today is the day, I’m coming out this freakin closet”?. But you still unsure “WHY” or how it will benefit you?. Well, today i will tell you all about it and more. “I’M SICK OF LIVING A LIE… Read More 4 Reasons Why You Should Come Out The Closet Today
Photo source http://www.peepsouth.wordpress.com Having the moment of glory on only two ideal venues in South Africa (Cape Town and Johannesburg), the DSTV UB40 SA TOUR is sure going to wow many. The UB40 band will be on tour in SA for the very fist time as a reunited band for two shows only. Let me… Read More THE DSTV UB40 SA TOUR
Few days till the big day “Valentine”s Day”, to me this day means celebrating, showing, and appreciating love of all spheres. I love my family more than anything else so I will remind them how much love and appreciation I have towards them. Anyway, the purpose of today’s post is to wish you all a… Read More 7 Tips To A Memorable 2014 Valentine’s Day.
Red, blue, yellow and purple: these are my favorite colors to gaze at from a distance and playing around with. The bright colors seem to be more appealing to Gay people at large. The class and allegiance brought by the sweet blue, pink, red – the list goes on and on…. be it a Chino… Read More Gay Is Colorful – Fashion Statement
“I just love the rush of being with another man, full filing the sex is” he said. The phrase “Sugar Daddy” is not new, often refers to young dynamic girls whom love all things pretty and fabulous at absolute no effort whatsoever. These girls give sex in favor of material things and money, to old… Read More Married Men, Money And Young Gay Guys – #SugerDaddy
Been so long since my last blog, with everything blending together, Done with exams, frequent friends meet ups, and family. Thus, stole my blogging time yet this has been the greatest year ever for me. Well, not everything went according to my 2013 action plan but it was indeed a fruit full year both for… Read More Thank you 2013, Bye.
Converse is officially LGBTIQ friendly. The newly released rainbow designed Chuck Taylor sneaker collection scream Queer style on steroids. Inspired by all the LGBTIQ communities around the world. Converse proudly introduces the 2016 Converse Pride Collection. Three colorful new Chuck Taylor All Star sneakers designed to be worn at pride parades, concerts, jubilations and beyond. The collection serves as… Read More Converse Releases Queer Inspired Sneakers
History will unfold in Durban when the first ever eThekwini Pride of Africa Festival takes place. The streets of the “warmest city” in South Africa will be awash with a kaleidoscope of colour when the carnival takes over Durban. Floats, dance troupes and other groups will parade around the city of Durban to the heartbeat… Read More Ethekwini Pride of Africa Festival 2016